Honouring Your Loved One: Options for Handling Cremation Ashes

After a cremation, many people find themselves wondering what to do with their loved one's ashes. While traditional methods like keeping them in an urn or scattering them in a meaningful location remain popular, there are now numerous creative and unique options available. This guide will explore both conventional and alternative ways to handle cremation ashes, helping you find a fitting tribute that honours your loved one's memory.

Traditional Methods

1. Keeping Ashes in an Urn

• Various types: Traditional, modern, wooden, biodegradable, keepsake
• Personalisation options: Engravings, photos, artwork
• Consider placement in home and long-term plans

2. Burying the Ashes

• Cemetery burial: Plot options, memorialisation, visitation
• Private property burial: Legal considerations, location choice
• Burial at sea: Regulations, ceremony options
• Eco-friendly options: Green cemeteries, memorial reefs

3. Scattering the Ashes

• Meaningful locations: Beaches, forests, mountains
• Aerial scattering: From aircraft, wide coverage
• Legal and environmental considerations

4. Columbarium Niche

• Indoor or outdoor options
• Advantages: Permanent site, space-efficient, low maintenance
• Personalisation options available

Creative and Alternative Options

1. Memorial jewellery - Ashes can be incorporated into beautiful pieces of jewellery, such as pendants, rings, or bracelets. This allows you to keep a small part of your loved one close at all times.
2. Vinyl records - For music lovers, ashes can be pressed into vinyl records, creating a unique audio memorial.
3. Artificial reef - Some companies offer services to mix ashes with environmentally safe materials to create artificial reefs, contributing to marine ecosystems.
4. Tree planting - There are biodegradable urns available that can be planted with a tree seedling, allowing your loved one to become part of a living memorial.
5. Tattoo ink - For a very personal tribute, some people choose to have a small amount of ashes mixed with tattoo ink for a memorial tattoo.
6. Space burial - Several companies now offer the option to send a small portion of ashes into space or to the moon.
7. Fireworks display - Ashes can be incorporated into fireworks for a spectacular and celebratory send-off.
8. Diamond creation - Through a high-pressure, high-temperature process, ashes can be transformed into a real diamond, creating a lasting and valuable keepsake.
9. Art creation - Artists can incorporate ashes into paintings, sculptures, or glass art pieces, creating a unique and personal memorial.
10. Hourglass - Ashes can be placed in a custom hourglass, symbolising the passage of time and the enduring nature of memories.

Considerations When Choosing a Method

• Wishes of the deceased
• Family consensus
• Religious or cultural traditions
• Legal restrictions
• Cost and practicality
• Long-term implications

Combining Multiple Options

Remember, you don't have to choose just one method. Many families opt to divide the ashes, using a portion for scattering and keeping some for memorial jewellery or an urn at home.

Incorporating Poetry in Ash Scattering Ceremonies

If scattering ashes, consider incorporating poetry to add depth and emotion. Our poems page offers suitable verses for the occasion.

Honouring the Memory Beyond the Ashes

Create a meaningful eulogy using our Funeral Speech tool.

Conclusion

Take your time to explore options and discuss with family. Choose a method that feels right and honours your loved one's memory.

For more guidance, visit our eulogy and poem examples and different types of funerals pages.

Remember, there's no rush to make this decision. Take your time to explore options and discuss with family members. Whatever you choose, it's the love and memories you shared that truly keep your loved one's spirit alive.